Feel free to call me Heather or Hai-Lei. I'm an INTJ, 25 year old neutrois demipansexual with a ton of fandoms.

I'm currently battling with LGL Leuekmia, Adult Onset Cyclic Neutropenia, and Lupus.

My inbox is currently open to both personal, and non-personal asks. Anon is on.

Have a nice day! :)

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But neckbeards are so fuuuunnnnn……

posted 1 hour ago on 1/9/2014

Some creepy lookin’ guy went through my rp blog and liked all my “the mun” pictures and reblogged some of my romance quotes and stuff.

Should I be concerned orrrr?

posted 13 hours ago on 31/8/2014


Accidentally hurting someone vs. accidentally hurting an animal

posted 13 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 88244 notes
via theswenqueen © lolgifs.net

Chronic pain problem #26: I’m in pain now but do I wait until it may get worse or better or do I take a painkiller now so that if it does get worse I’m not chasing the pain later?

posted 13 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 3 notes
#the struggle is real #chronic pain #sick problems #chronic illness #chronic illness problems


Someone requested a hand tutorial, so I rambled. I didn’t even get to everything I would like to, so here is a part!

posted 14 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 49321 notes
via art-and-sterf © myshrinkingviolet
#art tutorial #art help


jk rowling unilaterally writing that not a single member of slytherin house fought in the battle of hogwarts and instead every single one of them hid like cowards is honestly one of the laziest most flaccid writing decisions of our time

She didn’t though!

In the books, Slughorn and all the Slytherins went down to the dungeons yes, but later during the battle Harry mentions seeing Slytherins fighting as well.

Also, you have to imagine what it would be like for some of the Slytherins who chose not to fight. They weren’t just fighting death eaters and bad guys - they were fighting their parents and relatives and family friends.

posted 14 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 24323 notes
via andythelemon © trillgamesh
#this angers me so much like dont compare the movies to the books guys #slytherins chose to fight too

I wake up to like, 10 new followers, 5 of which are porn blogs. Whut? O_o;

posted 14 hours ago on 31/8/2014 with 3 notes


So I made a gif for a rp buddy to show her that shaving your hair doesnt have to be super drastic - nearly half of mine is gone and I can still flip (my very thin and chemo damaged hair too!) to the side and I look relatively conservative.

Figured it might be helpful to those who need that little push to take the plunge. xD

posted 1 day ago on 31/8/2014 with 4 notes
#shaved head #shaved hair #half shaved hair #hair gif #me
"Call your mother. Tell her you love her. Remember you’re the only person who knows what her heart sounds like from the inside."
— wow this made me sad.  (via bl-ossomed)

No I’m sorry this is bullshit. Some of us have been abused by our mothers. Some of us have been attacked, degraded, gaslighted, and pushed to the edge of suicide by our mothers. Some of us have been sexually abused and trapped in emotional incest by or because of our mothers.

If you have this good relationship with your mom, cool. Not all of us were that lucky. Stop trying to guilt people into maintaining contact with someone who isn’t worthy of the title of mother.

(via notstandingstillsdisease)

posted 1 day ago on 30/8/2014 with 137905 notes
via notstandingstillsdisease © pobredreamer
#having a narcassist for a mother IS SO FUN #not


Funfetti milk bar cake batter cake 

posted 1 day ago on 30/8/2014 with 225 notes
via foodishouldnoteat
#recipes #recipe